About to go on an okc date. However, upon screening wirh friends he is a confirmed creep. So i am hoping for some free drinks and some ridicule potential. Have @fuckdudeskilldudes on call for punches if need be. Love love.
“Even a life raft is only supposed to get you from the sinking ship back to land, you were never intended to live in the life raft, to drift years on end, in sight of land but never close enough.”—Another Bullshit Night in Suck City by Nick Flynn (via johnnydontcry)(via galesofnovember)
Why cant i do anything? Also, why cant i get rid of highschool insecure feels. I think i need to get rid of fb. Agarphobia applies to all aspects of my life, including the internet. Sometimes going places, even online, is too hard.
“On too many occasions, gay men and women of color have been told not to muddy the waters of the primary goal by bringing in concerns that might be addressed elsewhere When mainstream gay organizations actually address issues of race, gay white men and women continue to set the agenda for what is and is not considered appropriation for discussion. During one community forum on race, the organizers, again an overwhelmingly white bunch, informed the audience that we would not actually talk about racism, as ‘everyone is capable of racism’.
With one sweeping generalization, this group of white men trivialized the everyday experiences of the men, and a few women, of color in the audience by denying our personal experiences and by turning the accusations back on us. It’s a funny feeling to sit in an audience as an Asian gay man and watch as middle-class white men claim victimhood in racist America. Ultimately, isn’t that what their claim that ‘everyone is capable of racism’ boils down to? Isn’t what they’re really saying that they are also victims of racism?”—
“Perhaps if being single were an acceptable, even valued, lifestyle, partnerships might develop more out of choice and less out of necessity or a desperate grab for salvation.”—Easton and Hardy (via cecropia)